Knowing yourself a little better and embracing yourself the way you are while leaving room for improvement is a way of practising self-care without putting your mental health at stake.
With this notion of prioritizing self-care, Bumble has added a new feature to the app known as “authenti date.” The purpose of this feature is to inspirit the users to express themselves freely and embrace the way they are.
Bumble introduces a new feature ‘Authenti-date’
‘Authenti-date’ means showing your raw side without doubting yourself. The aim of introducing this feature is to stabilise the concept of dating so that users can find genuine and meaningful connections.
Samarpita Samaddar, Director of India Communications at Bumble, said that “by accepting “Authenti-date” and showing your true self, you have the best chance of finding like-minded people, which may lead to true, meaningful connections.” “Authenti-date focuses on motivating people to show their true version to the world so that people can know you for who you are.” She further added, “Our motive is to encourage people to choose what’s right for them and date at their own pace and terms.”
To help people be more authentic versions of themselves, relationship expert Shahzeen Shivdasani from Bumble shares a ‘Five-step resolution‘. Check it out here-
1. Be cognizant when you make anxious conclusions: We often tend to make judgments based on our first encounters. And if the date does not go as desired, we start believing that there is no hope for us. But one must know that every encounter gives you an idea of what to choose and what to eradicate. So, rather than concentrating on the negative side, look forward to what you can make of the experience.
2. Prioritize yourself: Putting yourself first and setting boundaries must be your initial concerns. Knowing your preferences and citing what works for you and what does not when it comes to dating helps you make a vivid decision. Instead of making assumptions about your date, speak your heart out and concentrate on going with the flow rather than rushing into things.
3. Know what kills your energy: Be clearer and try to stay away from confusion. Be open to changes. Changes somewhere break the pattern of monotony and things which may have not worked in the past might work now if you allow yourself to embrace change.
4. Focus on what you desire: Dating often leads us to seek validation in a relationship which may cause a decline in our confidence. Focus on things which help you boost your confidence. Rather than raising the question, ”Am I desirable?” concentrate on what you desire. Apart from looking for a life partner, there are other dynamics as well that you should consider. Some users’ main agenda is to find a romantic connection, whereas some users use dating apps to explore and meet new people.
5. Take your time: The crux of dating is that it’s not always easy to find someone you vibe with. It takes a lot to sustain a bond and make things work. But anything worth having takes time and effort both. So concentrate on giving yourself and your partner enough space and time, and date at your own pace.
