Buddha - The Thought Is Seed, Mind Soil.

Happiness The power we get because of the fact of having charisma, demeanor, and prowess that we carry naturally. So, the people and the crowd do follow us as who we are. No dominance or anything but only the connection. When you show that you are a team player, not partial, down to earth. In India, the best example for this is our honorable prime minister Mr. Narendra Modi.

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What is cognition?

Mindset refers to the pattern of thinking, the way we choose to think. At first it is default, very inquisitive and we are so agreeable and believable. This is for kids. Later we do develop the way we idolize like the people in society. And for kids their world is their parents. So, they do replicate the mindset that the guardians or the parents have.

Generally, we see 2 types of mindset. One is an open mindset and the other one being closed mindset. An open mindset is open to new ideas, opinions and stuff that they see, listen to or observe. They are not able to conclude properly. So, they do end up in a conundrum.

Where as, on the other hand – closed mindset is very receptive with the new ideas, thoughts and opinions. It just doesn’t care about it. Ignore the change and these people are very defensive and stubborn.

Now these are all about perception process. Why do we form perception biases? Because we are in a hurry to give closure. I have a very good hold on psychology, and it is something I acquired from someone. Definitely the one who inspired me – my mentor Ms. Sugandha Sharma. She taught me organizational behavior and I connect with her so deeply that the topics does connect with me.

The one we fabricate after realization is a new mindset. We do that with our consciousness.

Now the third mindset is also there, it is for those who are as self-aware as they know their reactions to the situations, they know themselves and are focused on the balancing of personality types

Power refers to authority that a person has over others, the thing that we get from society over our certain performance parameters? No, not at all. Absolutely wrong.

Correct meaning.

The power we get because of the fact of having the charisma, the demeanor and the prowess that we carry naturally. So, the people and the crowd do follow us as who we are. No dominance or anything but only the connection. When you show that you are a team player, not partial, down to earth. In India, the best example for this is our honorable prime minister Mr. Narendra Modi.

We all have our ups and downs in life. Bad things might happen to you or people you know on a daily basis. But there are some people who claim it is never their fault. They argue that they have no control over the tough situations and problems they encounter. It is simply always happening to them.

Victimhood can become a part of a person’s identity, but it is a learned behavior and can be changed. It often evolves as a defense mechanism to cope with adverse life events.

People who constantly blame other people or situations for the events in their lives have a victim mentality.

Expectations refer to the beliefs that you hold about the outcomes of events. While these expectations can play an important role in determining what happens and can contribute to goal-directed behavior, they can also lead to disappointment when reality does not match up to what you had hoped would happen.

Some of the common signs that you might hold expectations include:

When expectations are not met, it can lead to feelings of disappointment, frustration, and even anger.

In some cases, people might become so attached to their expectations that they are unable to see the reality of a situation. This can prevent them from acting or making decisions that would be in their best interest.

Research shows that people are surprisingly inept at predicting how they will feel in various situations. For example, one study found that newlywed couples tended to estimate that their happiness levels would rise (or at least stay the same) over the four-year period after marriage.1, levels of happiness tended to diminish over that time period.